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How about running riot
6:17 PM, 22/9/2008
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The size of mood can be divided into several kinds, for example feels blue, excited, even run riot, reach the state that a kind of mood breaks out, meet this kind of situation, prove this person has been stimulated by the unprecedented one, or the psychology has received enormous shock, the thought can not rotate over for the moment, the states of a kind of crowded confusion of forming on the pit of the stomach of stopping up both all mood, the heavy crossroad like the traffic, each driver wants to dash over, one hundred accidents finally.
People's mood is the same too, when receiving seriously and amazingly, often various mood will be swarmed in mind at the same time, for example grieved, for example angry, for example sad, and for example startled a series of emotion that waits a moment, the emotion is just like those cars out of control, the same direction wells up and exports to one at the same time, can never expect, the crowdedness of breaking out at one time lets this export lose ability of excreting, everybody wants to go, but the result but everyone can not walk. Air that as the saying goes play one it come ons to be the reason.
It is a bundle of negatives to in fact run riot, the only function that can be played is to let one's own mood become poorer, even the difficulty letting the thing that will solve make.
I have ever said: "The does not only fight for, so can not be with its battle all over the world. " That is to say, does not fight for with people by oneself, so no one can be with fighting for by oneself all over the world.
This is not merely a maxim, it is one kind that is full of intelligently big and intelligent intentions greatly even more. Three countries Pi Cao for time can very fine comprehension among them reason, than run riot easily.
Cao Cao has been paying attention to the successor's choice very much all the time, especially between second son and three sons, Cao Cao's very difficult choice. Pi Cao although crown prince, three son Cao plant, seem talented, gentle and world-renowned, still think highly of deeply by the Cao Cao. Let Cao Cao produce the thought which changes the crown prince frequently.
Pi Cao it learns to be very afraid behind the news this, busy with, brag to seek help to Jia, minister of brain truster, of him. Jia brags to say: "Moral character so long as you by and tolerance, is it the in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner to and not don't can violate by courtesy to be son with. " Cao Pi thought deeply rightly after hearing.
The chance to behave has come: One in Cao Cao go on an expedition by the emperor himself, younger brother Cao plant, declaim own article come on, eulogize for father, want to demand father's favor, reveal one's own ability together. Cao Pi weeps bending over, can not afford to kneel, a word is published, only lie prone and cry bitterly on the ground. Cao Cao surprise very, ask what is he reason let him to be so sad, Pi Cao see chance come, say choking with sobs: "Father's king is advanced in years, will assume command and go on an expedition by the emperor himself, I will worry as the son that also sad, so is so sad. "
Spring a surprise with one remark, full towards move for benevolence filial piety of the crown prince respectfully. On the contrary, plant Cao eulogize, let people feel showy and not substantial, contrary to people sub filial piety dish, if the monarch who becomes a country is probably difficult to be competent. Write the article and can't replace morals and statecraft after all. The last results of trial of strength of two brothers are: The crown prince is still an original crown prince, Cao plants but is treated coldly. After Cao Cao died, Cao Pi mounted the Wei state emperor's treasure location naturally.
Begin just, because Pi Cao unreconciled to one's own of crown prince seize by younger brother, and choose, defy death, fight for, result so absolutely, because talent of him obvious until Cao plant, and hero of hero making does not have so many as younger brother, so win and count so atomically. But he pieces of wise man after all, recover from a slow start reveal, brag Jia: Battle is, do not strive to fight for. Would rather not fight for than strive not to win, I only need to abide by the crown prince's duty, let three younger brothers perform heartily alone, reasonable unrestrained heart after all! Finally, as expected as expected, the brother takes the battle of the location, win and end up with persons who do not strive this.
The still not abundant society of a material, this kind of thing of striving for fame and gain may take place every day, lack snare that someone set among them, have natural trap too, they only picture enormous swirl, enter countless persons one, the route to pass is to run riot.
Like crossing the rivers, only those persons far away from swirl, could mount the other shore at first, close to swirl person those life protect probably. As a same reason, people are when being impatient, will often become rough and impolite and stubbornlying adhere one's opinion, you letting the person around feel are difficult to get along, a swirl, bury a person deeply inside.
The behavior be done harm rather than good, as one lose patient, often lost reason at the same time, analyze the things after losing the wise head, the final result can only be failing.
It makes oneself become patiently that how could then to let, can be calm but unlikely to run riot even in tense cases, and control one's own mood to some extent?
The person aptest to run riot's personalities are impetuous, because they are mostly unwilling to kill time, time arranges tightly, especially one's own working time, arrange well, if accidents don't happen to, what base would not appear to delay or any mistake appears. Certainly, the world affairs can not be always perfectly safe, then a lot of impetuous persons can run riot to give vent to one's own mood at this time. So, if you want to stop the emergence of this kind of situation, this kind of people had better leave certain leeway for oneself, for example, one's own appointment, what you participate in appointment important, want, give the abundant time that appointment reserve, even if is in the other side such as there's arrival, always come good by oneself than to keep the other side wait.
If when you feel very agitated, please try to use your imagination, make great efforts, make oneself quiet, let one's own body and mind among one quiet environment. For example when you feel in a confused state of mind, you can imagine that quiet famous scenic spot of the river bank, because it will make you tense and agitated mood disappear many.
If a person's rashness is accidental, then his trouble will disappear automatically. If always make one's blood boil alone, even rough and impolite, then he should realize he takes oneself too seriously, others or all things have lost due status in his mind.
In addition, the humour can help us to keep calm too frequently. So whom clever people always try every means transform the embarrassed scene into a humorous story, in order to make the other side feel interesting and funny, thus let one's own mood releived.
It is impetuous that that ran riot and reflected to a great extent is one kind in the abyss of the mind, and this kind to because work or result from pressure of life mostly, and this kind of pressure mostly come from the endless competition of this society, some people want a better job, in order to show off in front of the friend, some people want, buy good expensive cosmetics, it is to attract more others' attention to be, and just in order to meet these meaningless Vanity, people's life is more and more tired, the pressure is just larger and larger, can't bear finally, break out during short time, have become the running riot of a certain form.
In fact to the satisfaction of these material desires or not, only store during reading, totally depend on personal situation too, why destroy our bright life for these, do not still come back calmly in the end?
May well ask: How about running riot?
Note:
Desalinize and dispel the worried secret:
1,View compared. Unfortunate or when not injuring, should be good at comparing, see those persons more miserable yet than oneself, or think of worse result, in this way there is a lot of comfort in psychology, so worried as to disappear naturally.
2,View of time. As the saying goes time is the best fading from memory device, only time can let people forget a thing or a person in the world, why then not take the view of this kind of time to daily life and work, for example of comparation and assessment, you are unfortunate and unelected, the psychology must be very difficult to pass, at this time, after you can even imagine half a year in one month, who still remembers this thing, since it is so, why is there calm this kind ahead of time?
3,Realistic view. This is a kind of very affective view, that said is to accept the realistic method, going, facing until you unable face one thing, you had better brave, the calm one is gone to face, but not go to avoid, does not go to give up.
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