It's got me stuck between my fantasy and what is real
How about running riot
6:17 PM, 22/9/2008
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How about running riot Human
The size of mood can be divided into several kinds, for example feels blue, excited, even run riot, reach the state that a kind of mood breaks out, meet this kind of situation, prove this person has been stimulated by the unprecedented one, or the psychology has received enormous shock, the thought can not rotate over for the moment, the states of a kind of crowded confusion of forming on the pit of the stomach of stopping up both all mood, the heavy crossroad like the traffic, each driver wants to dash over, one hundred accidents finally.
People's mood is the same too, when receiving seriously and amazingly, often various mood will be swarmed in mind at the same time, for example grieved, for example angry, for example sad, and for example startled a series of emotion that waits a moment, the emotion is just like those cars out of control, the same direction wells up and exports to one at the same time, can never expect, the crowdedness of breaking out at one time lets this export lose ability of excreting, everybody wants to go, but the result but everyone can not walk. Air that as the saying goes play one it come ons to be the reason.
It is a bundle of negatives to in fact run riot, the only function that can be played is to let one's own mood become poorer, even the difficulty letting the thing that will solve make.
I have ever said: "The does not only fight for, so can not be with its battle all over the world. " That is to say, does not fight for with people by oneself, so no one can be with fighting for by oneself all over the world.
This is not merely a maxim, it is one kind that is full of intelligently big and intelligent intentions greatly even more. Three countries Pi Cao for time can very fine comprehension among them reason, than run riot easily.
Cao Cao has been paying attention to the successor's choice very much all the time, especially between second son and three sons, Cao Cao's very difficult choice. Pi Cao although crown prince, three son Cao plant, seem talented, gentle and world-renowned, still think highly of deeply by the Cao Cao. Let Cao Cao produce the thought which changes the crown prince frequently.
Pi Cao it learns to be very afraid behind the news this, busy with, brag to seek help to Jia, minister of brain truster, of him. Jia brags to say: "Moral character so long as you by and tolerance, is it the in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner to and not don't can violate by courtesy to be son with. " Cao Pi thought deeply rightly after hearing.
The chance to behave has come: One in Cao Cao go on an expedition by the emperor himself, younger brother Cao plant, declaim own article come on, eulogize for father, want to demand father's favor, reveal one's own ability together. Cao Pi weeps bending over, can not afford to kneel, a word is published, only lie prone and cry bitterly on the ground. Cao Cao surprise very, ask what is he reason let him to be so sad, Pi Cao see chance come, say choking with sobs: "Father's king is advanced in years, will assume command and go on an expedition by the emperor himself, I will worry as the son that also sad, so is so sad. "
Spring a surprise with one remark, full towards move for benevolence filial piety of the crown prince respectfully. On the contrary, plant Cao eulogize, let people feel showy and not substantial, contrary to people sub filial piety dish, if the monarch who becomes a country is probably difficult to be competent. Write the article and can't replace morals and statecraft after all. The last results of trial of strength of two brothers are: The crown prince is still an original crown prince, Cao plants but is treated coldly. After Cao Cao died, Cao Pi mounted the Wei state emperor's treasure location naturally.
Begin just, because Pi Cao unreconciled to one's own of crown prince seize by younger brother, and choose, defy death, fight for, result so absolutely, because talent of him obvious until Cao plant, and hero of hero making does not have so many as younger brother, so win and count so atomically. But he pieces of wise man after all, recover from a slow start reveal, brag Jia: Battle is, do not strive to fight for. Would rather not fight for than strive not to win, I only need to abide by the crown prince's duty, let three younger brothers perform heartily alone, reasonable unrestrained heart after all! Finally, as expected as expected, the brother takes the battle of the location, win and end up with persons who do not strive this.
The still not abundant society of a material, this kind of thing of striving for fame and gain may take place every day, lack snare that someone set among them, have natural trap too, they only picture enormous swirl, enter countless persons one, the route to pass is to run riot.
Like crossing the rivers, only those persons far away from swirl, could mount the other shore at first, close to swirl person those life protect probably. As a same reason, people are when being impatient, will often become rough and impolite and stubbornlying adhere one's opinion, you letting the person around feel are difficult to get along, a swirl, bury a person deeply inside.
The behavior be done harm rather than good, as one lose patient, often lost reason at the same time, analyze the things after losing the wise head, the final result can only be failing.
It makes oneself become patiently that how could then to let, can be calm but unlikely to run riot even in tense cases, and control one's own mood to some extent?
The person aptest to run riot's personalities are impetuous, because they are mostly unwilling to kill time, time arranges tightly, especially one's own working time, arrange well, if accidents don't happen to, what base would not appear to delay or any mistake appears. Certainly, the world affairs can not be always perfectly safe, then a lot of impetuous persons can run riot to give vent to one's own mood at this time. So, if you want to stop the emergence of this kind of situation, this kind of people had better leave certain leeway for oneself, for example, one's own appointment, what you participate in appointment important, want, give the abundant time that appointment reserve, even if is in the other side such as there's arrival, always come good by oneself than to keep the other side wait.
If when you feel very agitated, please try to use your imagination, make great efforts, make oneself quiet, let one's own body and mind among one quiet environment. For example when you feel in a confused state of mind, you can imagine that quiet famous scenic spot of the river bank, because it will make you tense and agitated mood disappear many.
If a person's rashness is accidental, then his trouble will disappear automatically. If always make one's blood boil alone, even rough and impolite, then he should realize he takes oneself too seriously, others or all things have lost due status in his mind.
In addition, the humour can help us to keep calm too frequently. So whom clever people always try every means transform the embarrassed scene into a humorous story, in order to make the other side feel interesting and funny, thus let one's own mood releived.
It is impetuous that that ran riot and reflected to a great extent is one kind in the abyss of the mind, and this kind to because work or result from pressure of life mostly, and this kind of pressure mostly come from the endless competition of this society, some people want a better job, in order to show off in front of the friend, some people want, buy good expensive cosmetics, it is to attract more others' attention to be, and just in order to meet these meaningless Vanity, people's life is more and more tired, the pressure is just larger and larger, can't bear finally, break out during short time, have become the running riot of a certain form.
In fact to the satisfaction of these material desires or not, only store during reading, totally depend on personal situation too, why destroy our bright life for these, do not still come back calmly in the end?
May well ask: How about running riot?
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Desalinize and dispel the worried secret:
1,View compared. Unfortunate or when not injuring, should be good at comparing, see those persons more miserable yet than oneself, or think of worse result, in this way there is a lot of comfort in psychology, so worried as to disappear naturally.
2,View of time. As the saying goes time is the best fading from memory device, only time can let people forget a thing or a person in the world, why then not take the view of this kind of time to daily life and work, for example of comparation and assessment, you are unfortunate and unelected, the psychology must be very difficult to pass, at this time, after you can even imagine half a year in one month, who still remembers this thing, since it is so, why is there calm this kind ahead of time?
3,Realistic view. This is a kind of very affective view, that said is to accept the realistic method, going, facing until you unable face one thing, you had better brave, the calm one is gone to face, but not go to avoid, does not go to give up.
4,View replaced.
Fairy tale of the love - -My story
11:21 AM, 16/8/2008
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Fairy tale of the love - -My story His figure of my gaze spills and falls on the court. Wanted to run, but the one that found him had already had a girl at one's side. The true one makes me unable to ignore her. Yes, he is a leading man in the fairy tale of the love. All fairy tales will have a final result beautiful, I do not know whether my fairy tale will have a final result that I want. I am only the passive wait. . . .
He and I are classmates junior middle school, when I see he sheds tears for other girls, as soon as I have moved, I become my fairy tale from beginning him at that time. I begin to gaze at his figure, that figure not belonging to me. He is still protecting his snow white in his world, has never paid attention to me at all times. Live and stay in his figure like this my junior middle school, stay in my fictitious love fairy tale. I thought even if my fairy tale was fictitious, had never thought of its even having true compositions one day.
While parting, I still have no courage to tell him, he is my fairy tale. I have no enough time to tell him, I want to let him come into my fairy tale. I lack that courage. Because I am unable to ignore that emotion of agglomeration in the expression in one's eyes that he gazes at her. When I want to give up that fairy tale not belonging to me, but he smile at, say to me: "It is said you like me! " I shake the head, show, deny, in in the heart smile deep Tibet of him ----That smile not belonging to I.
High school, there is no his figure, feel hollow. It is learnt that he has said good-bye to her. Write to him. Thinking, he will move one day, under the shower of a afternoon sunshine stealthily, the gentle one tells me, he has been wanting to become my fairy tale all the time. His letter has let me down. Reveal appear he emotion in her between lines, let him put down so still. Become friends! While associating in the letter coming and going, I tell myself, should be put down in this way. But has forgotten how to put down.
In an instant, the high school which does not have him lives and is over. Still keep the friend's identity with him, chat, meet. But has forgotten to tidy up that heart forgetting of oneself. Think for a long time with the heart that forget, but cruel to collapse that time. . . . . .
" she is my girlfriend " He is introducing the girl around him at the friend's party. My heart is a violent pain. Why is not me, I do not have the asking of a speech. There is no answer. Why? Why do not you face my emotion? Why? I have cried, that is a kind of despair. Does not my fairy tale have a final result like this?
It begin I it answer telephone of him,it begin refuse participate in there is he in friend have a get-together. I just wait, wait to leave this city. University life waiting for me to yearn for. I think that really want the fairy tale with me to say goodbye this time. I believe new life will give me a new fairy tale.
"Let's become my girlfriend! " Want, leave this the first one night in city in me, he wan and sallow to say to me, "I wanted to send you home that day, you went ahead of time finally. Phone you and does not answer, can not also find you, I am very worried. I'm afraid we have missed. Become my girlfriend, OK? " I have cried again, he can always let me shed the tears for him easily. Can I refuse? You are the fairy tale that I want!
After the one year, stay one anniversary in us. His telling me stealthily, while in fact letting me be his girlfriend, he has not come to like me. He says his just simple wanting to treasure me, treasures this and places him on I at heart all the time. He is only the emotion of taking him to do stakes. Whether gambling me can become the snow white in his children's story one day. "Then have you won? " I ask. " has failed, the ones that fail are penniless " He says under the shower of the sunshine with a smile. I am so happy as to smile. Because my emotional fairy tale has a final result beautiful.
Understand the love --two
3:37 PM, 19/6/2008
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Understand the love --two " I can't have Moving services no you " ,Love a person, he (she) Regard as a part of one's own life, think that has no he (she) ,Can't just live on, is regarding the other side as one's own living reason by oneself, this is really an explanation of love, tell the other side he (she) clearly Position in one's own heart. But this is only love proceeding from oneself, just in order to think about oneself. Perhaps those men and women sacrificing life for the feeling remain at this stage, I must stay with you, can't be with growing, then with dying. A lady, will divorce husband because the husband has not taken her into account to flee for life alone when the earthquake come at the time of the earthquake, she think husband if true love she, should have her live on perhaps, he ran first when there is a earthquake, that does not love her, she fell into the trap of the selfish love, have only expected how the husband should love her. In fact if she loves one's own husband deeply, do not hope he lives in the danger and disaster? He himself is no doubt wrong when running away, but see husband's safety is in good health, she should be happpy at first, but not criticize him. The love is mutual, not because one party to the responsibility of another party, but understand and forgive. " I can't have no you " Moving company ,It is still a kind of superficial love to reveal, it is the responsible love to one's own existence of letting the other side come.
" have what if it will be I you " ,This should love that the other side consider more, one that is the other side happy to link with oneself together, bear one's own responsibility with all one's heart for the other side. Because trifling quarrel that the person if in the love think so, why are there those? " I will do all that you need for you, I will make you happier with my efforts " ,Will think of only in this way " What if having no me you ",So this stage the person in love is concerned that should live carefully oneself, oneself want, struggle hard, give the other side one fine house, give one of the other side worth reality that remember.
" if I am out, you should live on carefully " ,This should be more high-level love, no matter how in love, can not make sure to let the life wither and fall at the same time either, then, in case " I am out, you should live on carefully " ,Not to the pursuit with life and death, but deeper care to the other side. The life is valuable, even if oneself is out, should let the other side enjoy the happiness of the life, hope the other side lives on carefully, needn't stay in remembering, this's the splendour of the love, devote and glisten in here love!
It is pursued that there are more we when being young " I can't have no you " ,So this world is being always performed the love story that life and death is being accompanied; Reach middle age, we consider a more one to " have what if it will be I you " ,This love begins to land in reality, the vicissitudes with this world; And at the old age, because everybody face straightly, die, it loves to be here also, can go, think " if I am out, logistics company you should live on carefully " . Love from young to come up, move towards devoting from oneself finally!
" love " The word is very heavy, can not really be explained easily, her representative is a kind of sincere devotion, it is a kind of choice not repentant, does that light and thin one occupy how to be worthy of deserving to be called and loving? If really understand to the love, he (she) alone Life the getting more light never,because of him Will bear the responsibility to another person with all one's heart!
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Who has stolen our aesthetic feeling
5:12 PM, 16/6/2008
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Who has stolen our aesthetic feeling Zhao Ruheng, regimental Office Relocation commander of Central Ballet Group, has cited such an example: Many audiences in Beijing wait for four cygnets to
appear on the scene once seeing " Swan Lake " ,or it is that 24 are still 25 to count swans, it is 32 circles that black swan rotates.
Peking University Professor, aesthstic house leaf bright to point out reality much parents force children to play the piano, learn to paint,
purpose just for do in the test magnitude, for add, divide when the examination for entering school, no matter child have interest at all, just
discuss naturally that can not appreciate music and painting are beautiful. He emphasize art educate sure humane intension to should pay
attention to it, want, make people experience beauty for life, encourage people to pursue one's own nobleness, go to pursue a kind of more
valuable life, this is soul of aesthetic education. Without this soul, it is not the aesthetic education that simple art of studying technology is
educated.
There is no beauty in beautiful artistic education to should find beauty, Air Freight Forwarder enjoy most, then among other knowledge educations, U.S.A. is a almost
luxurious thing even more. Launch for example in the school extensively " Olympic Competition " ,It is practising repeatedly to the same
question type mostly, the ability which the child thinks independently that die out in so mechanical exercises-stuffed teac hing method, it is here
to be many " Olympic Competition " China award-winning person say, unwilling to continue, engaged in mathematics research, one or two
people say all one's life unwilling to exposed to any mathematics symbol even.
The words which are read master Chen Xingshen of mathematics, we will feel deeply ashamed endlessly. He says: It is a blessing that
mathematics does not have the Nobel Prize. This is a stretch of quiet world, there is no Grand Prix, it is an equal world too. Problem with simple
and difficult mathematics. These questions make people forget to eat and sleep, year in year out, once find the Ocean Transportation brightness, it can't be described
that it is happy. This old man still hates to part with mathematics on one's deathbed: " I will go, go to the Holy Land Greece of mathematics to
register. In the paradise, must have beauty of mathematics too. "
American scientist Karl Sa has said one: " We might not become a scientist, but does not hinder us from appreciating the beauty in science. "
Then, why are life China and the United States blind more than science illiteracies? Whose aesthetic feeling of stealing us is it? Where is the
aesthetic feeling of stealing us that when it is?
People often say this is one era lacking the master too, because we are too eager for quick success to a great extent, have turned science and
art into a stepping-stone to success. After the door is Worldwide Relocation knocked open, the brick is abandoned naturally. Beautiful, what speech does reply?
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