Ashleigh Elizabeth Hackett

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Born: 24th October 2006; Died: 22nd December 2006; Aged 8 weeks and 3 days old. "Our Sweet Princess"


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Moving

Just wanted to do a quick one. Saying we are moving house tomorrow.

We need a fresh start and a chance to pick up our lives again, after loosing Ashleigh and 2 x miscarriages. Every baby we have conceived in this house has died

We arent moving far, a few suburbs away! For close friends etc an email will go out with our new home number and email address (changing providers) Mobile no stays as it is now.

Thank you to all who have taken the time to read this, and comment.



Boyd asked the other day if Ashleigh could come to his birthday party. I quickly (as we were in the car) explained she couldnt (gently) and that she had died and cant come back.

Last night, when talking to Nick about it, we talked to Boyd together about getting old and dying and going to heaven to see Ashleigh. Nick pointed up and said shes in heaven and Boyd asked if she was in the roof, so we took him outside and showed him the brightest star and told him that that is Ashleigh looking down on him making sure he is ok. Now she is a star she cant come home, but one day (when hes older than MY nana LOL) he can be a star too. He looked up and said "Hi Ashleigh" AS we were getting ready for bed he wandered downstairs and asked if he could go see Ashleighs star. I took him out and cloud had covered that star, so I found another and said to him that it was time for Ashleigh to go to sleep now and to say good night so they could both sleep. So he did, he waved and said good night, then came inside and told NIck all about Ashleigh having to go to bed now too.

        

Posted: 10:59 PM, 16/8/2007
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To Whom it may concern,
I read your very sad story about your children it is very sad i am very sorry to hear of your losses, I myself suffered a miscarriage and it is really hard but i do now have 4 beautiful children i only wish that your story had a happy ending my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Regards
Bronwyn Knight
Australia

Posted by Bronwyn Knight at 12:09 PM, 17/8/2007

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in my prayers...

I am so sorry to hear of your losses. One family should not go through so much pain. I hope that your move will help you move forward (not forget, just ease the pain of memories). You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by Anonymous at 5:42 AM, 13/10/2007

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Hi sweetie. My heart goes out to you. I to suffered a miscarriage on February 12th 2007. Its a sad loss for any woman to endure. I have been ttc for over 8 months since and have not fell pregnant. I concieved my daughter Lilike and son Locke so quickly and they are healthy. Although Lilike was born sick she is very healthy now. God Bless you Sweetie. I see your need to start a fresh through all that you have been through. And if a house contains sad memories its best to make new beginnings in a new home. Just remember your most happiest memories will always go where you go within your heart.
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Posted by Sylvie, Lilike & Lockes Mommy at 10:54 PM, 29/10/2007

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Hi there,

I found your sight on google as i was searching for something totally different and came across this.

My deepest sympathy for your losses. Words cannot soften the pain you have felt and gone through. Just recently my cousin passed away. He was 10 years old. Although not a baby anymore, he was still too young to go. I have a 10 year old son too and seeing the pain that my aunty had to go through, the agony in her eyes brought me to tears, thinking what if that were me? I feel so much sadness for you and i wish so much that 2008 can bring bigger and better things for you. I hope that you have nothing but happiness throughout this year and forever. Know that your beautiful daughter is in a wonderful place and she is biulding a foundation for you and the rest of your family to join her in due time. She will be looking after the other babies that you had lost and watching over all of you until you meet again.

God bless your family and know that there are people out here praying for you all.

Posted by Anonymous at 6:00 PM, 26/3/2008

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I have just read your blog and my heart goes out to you and your beautiful family.

No one should have to go through pain like you have and my heart aches for you.

You are in my thoughts and prayers my darling.

Posted by Kelly at 3:47 PM, 27/7/2008

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thank-you

i have to say thank-you so much for sharing your horrible sadness with me. i have never experienced such sadness and unbearable heart ache. thru reading your story i have fallen in love with my children all over again. i went and got my little one up and gave him a hug. i feel i was taking them for granted. i fell alseep last night thinking of you and the other mummies out there like you. its not fair and i am sorry. may time make it a little easier each day and i hope you find the happiness your family deserves.
thank-you,renee

Posted by Anonymous at 11:33 AM, 22/8/2008

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