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• 2/7/2007 - How to be evil

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You know for all the discourse of how the internet brings bad stuff to us, it really stops short of telling us how to be truly corrupt and evil - anarchists handbook aside.

 

I've come to realise, even in my new job, that there will always be psychopaths and dysfunctional behaviour in the workplace.  How I deal with them is up to me.  I've tried and tried to be professional, but sometimes the temptation to drop them in it and let them suffer at their own game is...  well.... just a little overwhelming.  Espeically as the person I have in mind recently got back from a holiday and talked about enjoying the experience of killing a chicken.  Butchery aside, harming animals (and especially enjoying it) is textbook psychopathic behaviour.

It's just being evil is something I'm not very good at.  I've spent a long time learning how to be functional and professional.  That and my usual response it just to hate and withdraw from people like that.

 

I have searched and searched for some ideas on how to get back at a particular person, and it's just not working.  All I've come up with is how to be functional and overcome these things professionally.  At the risk of giving into psychopaths, it would seem, short of getting an evil profesor as a mentor, this is my only hope.  But I will give a quick, unfortunately unpaid, plug to about.com again, who have some wonderful HR stuff on how to be professional and fortunately inspiringly a whole lot of stuff on leadership.

Unfortunately some of the advice matched what BRW has to say about owning a business - have an exit strategy.  Unfortunately I don't want to change jobs again so soon!  Unless on the off chance I get a BDM role with an Aussie bank in London I just saw...  I wonder if I have to be qualified.

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• 2/7/2007 - evil colleagues

Posted by twilight
So true - todays animal torturers are tomorrow's sociopaths. I have never, and will never, understand how the hell anyone manages to derive pleasure from watching (or worse, causing) an animal to suffer. It just does not make any sense to me.

As for what you should do about this cockroach... I see where you're coming from, sometimes it sucks being the mature one and you just want to see somebody get their just desserts. My friend has a saying she applies to these situations... the karmic bus stops all stations. It may take time, but eventually these people cause their own downfall, with no need for you to demean yourself by sinking to their level. It's just damn frustrating in the meantime.
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• 2/7/2007 - Monsters

Posted by R
I am working my way through the book by John Clarke, Working with Monsters, and sociopaths tend to get away with their behaviour because they are not called on it from a very early age and get more and more daring in order to satisfy their own egos. Power is like a drug to these people.

If ever you find yourself working with a monster, I recommend telling another trusted co-worker and thoroughly documenting their behaviour through to the grizzly end, as you plot their demise.

Revenge is a dish best served cold.
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• 2/7/2007 - Karma and revenge.

Posted by AngelaJames
Yes the animal thing I find quite distrubing, and I've been thinking about it lots because some one in my neighbourhood is not just killing possums (which I have to admit are annoying) but mutilating the faces of the corpses and leaving them on the side of the road. My cat also went missing a couple of years ago, and I always worry about what happened to her :-(
The problem with the particular person I have in mind is they're already exhibiting a lot of dysfunctional behaviour.

I should probably finish reading my book on Workplace Psychopaths and also my other book on power. Actually there was a little gem in my book on power this morning about using scapegoats and often people who do their job but are also dysfunctional are perfect scape-goats. Bwwahahaha.

But yes revenge is best served cold, I keep hoping he'll leave before me or that when the business has developed a bit more and we finally don't share any projects as my boss has promised (and failed to deliver on), I can leave him high and dry with no effect to my clients. Although I have to say a situation where my help will be needed but has been declined could develop rather well in my favour this week :-)
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• 2/7/2007 - ...

Posted by klarth
Get them fired, out of sight, out of mind.
It's the classic metaphysical approach: If you can't see them then they won't exist.
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• 2/7/2007 - Out of sight

Posted by AngelaJames
Alternatively the easiest way to achieve that is to get really really dark glasses.
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